We all might have felt and spent some nervous moments before going on a first date. It is the most important time of a relationship. It has the potential to make or break a relationship. So it is natural for guys to ponder about the list of things not to do on a first date. To help out such guys, here is a list of top 8 things not to do on a first date for guys.
Don’t Talk about your Past Relationships
This is the first rule of dating. Never talk or reveal the details about your past relationships on your first date. More importantly don’t try to explain the reasons why your past relationships didn’t work out. Instead try to discuss about your hobbies and interests. Remember there is always time to discuss about these when your relationship reaches next level.
Don’t Use phone Too Much
On your first date with her, don’t use your phone unless it is very important. If you spend too much time with your phone than talking to her, then there is every bit chance that your date might feel that she isn’t interest you much. To avoid such scenario, keep your in silent mode for the entire duration of the date. This allows you to spend quality time with your date without any distractions.
Don’t Turn Up Late
Always turn up on time for your first date. In fact, would suggest you to show up at least 10 minutes earlier than the agreed time. Showing up on time shows your commitment and gives her the impression that you are a man of your words.
Don’t Talk About Financial Status
Never bring the topics about your financial status. You might want to boast or complain about your financial activities but remember that it might cause her to imagine you to be a man who values money more than required. It’s a sign which turns off a woman’s interest. Don’t bring the topic by yourself unless she brings it up.
Don’t Bring the Topics of Marriage & Children
Marriage and Children should be the topics to be discussed in the later part of a serious relationship. So bringing these topics for discussion on your first date itself might frighten her a bit. Avoid them completely and try to talk about different places of mutual interest.
Don’t Just Speak About Yourself
Don’t just go about talking yourself. Give her enough time to talk about herself. Ask and let her ask you questions. Talk with passion in your eyes and listen keenly when she is speaking, after all every woman likes a man who listens.
Don’t Dress-up too Much
Dressing too much for the occasion might surprise her. Dress according to the place you are going to meet. Just remember that the cost of what you are wearing isn't important but the way it suits the atmosphere you are going to meet is.
Don’t Lie
Avoid telling her lies. You might want to lie about few things which you fear would make her feel bad about. Just remember, the situation you will be in when she comes to know about the truth will be the worse. So it’s a strong advice to be truthful in a relationship right from the word go. Honesty always earns more points in every successful relationship.
Above are the top 8 things not to be done on your first date. Hope this article helps you on your date and impress that special girl. All the best.
